Russell Brand and Jordan Peterson – a conversation on addiction recovery, the higher self, tyranny/competence, and synthesis

An incredible 90 minute conversation featuring two truly woke minds. This wide ranging discussion hits on topics we rarely hear about or bother to understand. Discover this!

Russell Brand: “Thesis, anti-thesis, synthesis. We require synthesis

JBP: “And that’s the interplay of opposites”

“RB: “The Ying & Yang- there needs to be necessary collusion between distinction(s), but for that to happen there needs to be acknowledgement and recognition of difference. Trying to achieve equality with the annihilation of category is not a successful route”

Detroit: Become Human, Must Watch!

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Hey fellas!

It’s been nearly a half year since my last post- yesterday, I started streaming Detroit: Become Human and I’ve been so enthralled by the graphics, game play and narrative that I felt compelled to share this  with you all.

Here is a brief synopsis from Wikipedia:

Detroit: Become Human is an adventure game developed by Quantic Dream and published by Sony Interactive Entertainment for the PlayStation 4, released worldwide on 25 May 2018. The plot revolves around three androids: Kara, who escapes the owner she was serving to explore her newfound sentience and protect a young girl; Connor, whose job it is to hunt down sentient androids; and Markus, who devotes himself to releasing other androids from servitude. They may survive or perish depending on dialogue choices that shape the story as customized by the player.

Here is video (thanks TheRadBrad for playing so I don’t have to!) ENJOY!

Friday Findings 11/3/17

Daylight Savings Time Folks!

I’m two days late on my Friday Findings, so thank you all for waiting. On Friday, I attended the Caribbean Wedding of my dreams – Congratulations to Andre and Anielisa! Live long and prosper

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What’s On My Mind? 

On Halloween, my great city of New York dealt with another deranged ISIS sympathizer who killed 8 innocent souls and injured a dozen more. The terrorist previously struggled financially with his trucking business and did poorly as an Uber driver. Instead of making adjustments to his life, he took out his frustrations on others. In America, we have a constitutional right to due process. In my opinion, the clear evidence of his actions and his confession are due process enough. I refuse to spend another dollar of my money to support his livelihood. We should skip Gitmo and send him to hell, where he belongs. 

What I’m watching/reading/listening to:51acdmwwg1l-_sl500_

“Ready Player One” by Ernest Cline and narrated by Wil Wheaton on Audible

I’ve been listening to the audio version of this novel and I’m enjoying it A LOT. For all my gamer/nerd friends, you will love the constant references to the 80s, various gaming consoles, dungeons and dragons etc. Wil Wheaton does a great job of bringing the characters to life and this one is absolutely worth your time! 16 hours listening, but only 12 when played on 1.25x =)

Publisher’s Summary:

At once wildly original and stuffed with irresistible nostalgia, Ready Player One is a spectacularly genre-busting, ambitious, and charming debut – part quest novel, part love story, and part virtual space opera set in a universe where spell-slinging mages battle giant Japanese robots, entire planets are inspired by Blade Runner, and flying DeLoreans achieve light speed.

It’s the year 2044, and the real world is an ugly place.

Like most of humanity, Wade Watts escapes his grim surroundings by spending his waking hours jacked into the OASIS, a sprawling virtual utopia that lets you be anything you want to be, a place where you can live and play and fall in love on any of 10,000 planets.

And like most of humanity, Wade dreams of being the one to discover the ultimate lottery ticket that lies concealed within this virtual world. For somewhere inside this giant networked playground, OASIS creator James Halliday has hidden a series of fiendish puzzles that will yield massive fortune – and remarkable power – to whoever can unlock them.

For years, millions have struggled fruitlessly to attain this prize, knowing only that Halliday’s riddles are based in the pop culture he loved – that of the late 20th century. And for years, millions have found in this quest another means of escape, retreating into happy, obsessive study of Halliday’s icons. Like many of his contemporaries, Wade is as comfortable debating the finer points of John Hughes’s oeuvre, playing Pac-Man, or reciting Devo lyrics as he is scrounging power to run his OASIS rig.

And then Wade stumbles upon the first puzzle.

Suddenly the whole world is watching, and thousands of competitors join the hunt – among them certain powerful players who are willing to commit very real murder to beat Wade to this prize. Now the only way for Wade to survive and preserve everything he knows is to win. But to do so, he may have to leave behind his oh-so-perfect virtual existence and face up to life – and love – in the real world he’s always been so desperate to escape.

My Photo of the Week

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Great Recent Purchase Taiyaki Ice Cream Cone (assorted flavors) $7

Drea finally got me to try Taiyaki NYC, a hole in the wall ice cream shop known for their customized “cones” which look like fish and have red bean paste in them. We picked up a matcha/black sesame flavored cone, and it was awesome. It’s pricey for ice cream at $7 bucks, but worth trying once.IMG_8125


What’s Biggie Smalls Up to?

His favorite dog park attraction shut down for the season, and he’s not pleased about it…


Friday Findings 10/27/17

Happy Friday everyone!

What’s on my mind?

Catalonia Declares Independence! Shortly after Catalonia formally declared independence, Madrid fired the government, dissolved the regional parliament and ordered new elections, escalating the biggest political crisis for Spain in decades.

As an outside observer, I sympathize with the people of Catalonia who feel that the Madrid-centric government takes more than it provides to the region and views them as second class citizens. I also think that people are taking the Barcelona/Real Madrid rivalry too far…

Anyway now, how will the EU deal with Catalonia? What happens to visas and passports for EU citizens working in Catalonia? Who now represents the voices of those who don’t want to “leave” Spain? I have a feeling that things are about to get a lot worse before they get better.


What I’m listening to/watching/reading

“Mindset” by Carol Dweck. I’m 64 pages in – this book is topically fascinating and reads like a page turner, not a graduate level dissertation.


From Amazon: 

After decades of research, world-renowned Stanford University psychologist Carol S. Dweck, Ph.D., discovered a simple but groundbreaking idea: the power of mindset. In this brilliant book, she shows how success in school, work, sports, the arts, and almost every area of human endeavor can be dramatically influenced by how we think about our talents and abilities. People with a fixed mindset—those who believe that abilities are fixed—are less likely to flourish than those with a growth mindset—those who believe that abilities can be developed. Mindset reveals how great parents, teachers, managers, and athletes can put this idea to use to foster outstanding accomplishment.
In this edition, Dweck offers new insights into her now famous and broadly embraced concept. She introduces a phenomenon she calls false growth mindset and guides people toward adopting a deeper, truer growth mindset. She also expands the mindset concept beyond the individual, applying it to the cultures of groups and organizations. With the right mindset, you can motivate those you lead, teach, and love—to transform their lives and your own.


My Photo of the Week

Special of the day: Tuna Collar @ Au Pied De Cochon Montreal.

This tantalizing plate features the tuna collar of a 465lb Bluefin Tuna and a ponzu sauce made with bone broth from the spine of the fish. More importantly, there is akami and chutoro nigiri, foie gras & peanut butter nigiri w/ bonito flakes, eel nigiri, and tuna tartare with creme fraiche and sturgeon caviar. Also, the “foil” is edible silver. Life is grand!



Great Recent Purchase


Bogle Vineyards Cabernet Sauvignon ($11). I appreciate wine at all price points, and I’ve been buying multiple bottles of this one lately. It’s a great value, has a bold mouthy flavor profile and finishes quite smoothly.


What’s Biggie Smalls up to?


His first play date and sleepover party with Carol! Thanks to Carlos and Ellyn for taking care of these two souls while Drea and I were out of town =)

Friday Findings 10/20/17

Happy Friday my dear readers,

The Yankees are ONE victory away from the World Series- LET’S GO YANKEES!

What’s On My Mind: I’ve been a long time fan of the Total War Series for PC, and the latest game, Warhammer 2 is no exception. Post launch, a new campaign has been added free of charge for owners of Warhammer 1+2 called the “Mortal Empires” campaign. I’m excited to play this mega-campaign featuring all the legendary lords from both games, which will offer increased racial and play-style diversity. Here is the campaign map!


What I’m reading/watching/listening to: Jocko Willink‘s new book: “Discipline Equals Freedom Field Manual” We are the average of the five people we spend the most time with, and I’m working hard to improve myself physically and mentally with guidance and inspiration from Jocko Willink. His life’s work and living principles are a north star for me, and I hope you guys can take in even just an ounce of his wisdom. I’m certain that listening to his podcast and reading this book will improve your ability to negotiate business, relationships and life.


My Photo of the Week:


Drea crushes some delicious BBQ Chicken Feet at Jing Fong Restaurant during Saturday Dim Sum in Chinatown, NYC ❤

Great Recent Purchase: Nespresso Essenza Mini (Ruby Red) I picked up this wonderful compact little espresso maker in the Nespresso Soho NYC store over the past weekend for only $105 (30% off $149.99 price). I think it’s listed for higher online but the $150 price should be obtainable if you guys look online. It makes amazing espressos (1.35oz), americanos and lungos (double sized espressos) for less than $1/capsule, and it’s a great bit of affordable luxury to kick off your day. It takes less than 10 seconds to heat up and start serving, so I’ve saved quite a bit of time as well.

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What’s Biggie Smalls Up To? Happy Howl-o-ween!


Jordan Peterson – On Social Justice And Truth

Good afternoon my dear readers,

I want to share with you all an amazing podcast interview between Joe Rogan and Jordan Peterson, a Canadian clinical psychologist, cultural critic, and professor of psychology at the University of Toronto. Jordan Peterson made the news this year for his “controversial” critiques against political correctness, postmodernism feminism, category bashing (e.g. white privilege) and outrage over cultural appropriation.

First, this is his message to millennials who are looking to change the world: “Change yourself first”

This 3 hour discussion was one of the most elucidating talks I’ve heard in my short life across a span of topics ranging from post-modernism, classic male dominance hierarchies, political correctness, good & evil, the authoritarian left and social justice warriors, kekistan, operating in a world of chaos, finding the meaning in life for men/women, universal basic income, Donald Trump’s lies vs. Hillary Clinton’s lies, PTSD, Freud and Jung and realizing our capacity for evil. 

The following passage(s) resonated most strongly with me, and I’m paraphrasing the conversation in the most coherent way possible. Before I start, I note that I am a cis-gender male who embraces climbing the dominance hierarchy, and all the shit that comes with it. I reject political and social orthodoxy and absolutism from both the left and right when it conflicts with science, intellectualism, and the hard-fought principles of humanism, individualism, and the enlightenment.

Unlike chimps, human females are choosy about their mating partners. Alpha chimps pass on their genes because they dominate and push off lesser chimps. In the 6 million years since humans split from chimps genetically, we have created our own male dominance hierarchy (DH) mediated by FEMALES but chosen by males who push those with power, influence or leadership to the top, who then pass on their genes with the females who select them.

As humans, we are optimized to live in tribes of up to 100 to 250 people (Dunbar’s number). That number is big enough where climbing to the top of the hierarchy feels important, but small enough where it is achievable, compared to the entire world/civilization.

On average, we have twice as many female ancestors than we do males ones because females on average reproduce once, and males on average reproduce twice or not at all. Men are well adapted to both accepting the presence of the hierarchy and learning how to climb it so that he can leave a genetic contribution. Over time, our observation of the evolution of the DH spawns hero mythologies- the hero is the man who kills the snake, who slays the dragon and gets the gold to bring back to the village. He is also mostly likely to find and claim the virgin in this mythology.  The classic male dominance hierarchy is a mechanism that selects heroes and breeds them, and since we tell stories about heroes, the classic dominance hierarchy is as much as cultural and societal narrative as it is a form of genetic and sexual selection. The societal narrative for the description of people as admirable or not admirable evolves into categories from which we derive good and evil – we can then imagine the perfect person. The meta-admirable is a hero, a religious figure, a messiah.

Men compete because women like winners, and hetero males are shamed for that in a post modern society. Post modernists reject the classic male structures because they realize that they can’t compete in this hierarchy. They compete as allies, which is why “male feminists” (a crude catch-all that doesn’t encompass the complexity of modern male/female relationship dynamics) are still seen as “creepy/sneaky”, particularly when they are discriminatory towards classic male behavior.

0:00 – Jordan has been denied a grant for the first time in his academic career
2:15 – When Jordan did a speech at McMaster University
13:00 – The Gender Unicorn
23:50 – Joe asks Jordan if he has any issues with a person who is Transgender
31:15 – Jordan references Jacques Derrida
38:19 – Jordan depicts the ‘power-game’ mentality adopted by post-modernists. Context from 36:40
41:00 – Jordan depicts post-modernists using the principle of the meme as an analogy 46:00 – The capacity for malevolence in people and post-traumatic stress
49:39 – Phallogocentrism and ‘mansplaining’
56:00 – One of the precursors of a genocidal state
1:00:00 – ‘Plos 1’. Context from 57:00
1:14:00 – Special Ops soldiers (Rangers / Seals) who are less likely to experience PTSD due to being pro-active. Context from 1:12:54
1:20:50 – Jordan references psychedelics. Partially contextualizes => 1:23:30 – The male dominance hierarchy
1:27:25 – Societal heroes spawning out of the dominance hierarchy
1:28:45 – Postmodern males climbing the dominance hierarchy
1:31:11 – Kekistan
1:37:14 – Operating in a world of chaos
1:39:55 – Joe tells Jordan they “fucked with the wrong dude”
1:41:30 – Jordan explains why you should clean your room
1:48:00 – Freud and Jung (who is “truly terrifying”) and realizing your capacity for evil 1:50:30 – Jordan tells Joe he is a monster, Joe says he thinks like a demon
1:53:00 – Jordan and Joe legitimize each other
1:54:30 – Why Jordan doesn’t consider himself an intellectual
1:58:10 – Jordan explains one of Northrop Frye’s interpretations regarding the Bible. Context from 1:57:30
2:04:15 – Jordan is trying to (exasperatedly) resurrect the dormant Logos, and it is mostly with men
2:05:10 – Current superhero movies and Polytheism / Marduk the Mesopotamian god 2:07:50 – Jordan talks about why his principles might be reaching more men than women 2:13:15 – Finding meaning / a method Jordan uses with people in his program / men having a purpose vs. women having a purpose
2:17:49 – How Jordan depicts hell to people in his program
2:20:00 – Jordan loses his point while talking about having a meaningful life / Comey gets fired by Trump
2:22:00 – Jordan on suffering being irreducible
2:28:30 – Joe’s story about a friend of his who was addicted to an online game (Everquest: A MMORPG)
2:31:40 – Donald Trump’s lies vs. Hillary Clinton’s lies
2:34:55 – Universal basic income
2:38:20 – The problems with creative people. Context from 2:37:40
2:40:20 – ASAT camouflage
2:47:30 – Jordan talks about his life since attracting unwanted attention from the University
2:52:00 – Jordan suggests that Joe could be the most powerful interviewer on the planet


Did you guys enjoy the podcast? What stood out most to you? Let’s discuss!